chivalry really is dead

so maybe i wasn't paying attention and maybe i did this to myself . . .
but when did i become one of the guys?
when did it become ok to spit on the floor infront of girls?
when did it become okay to say all the inappropriate things that get said infront of me?
ok i know that most of the time i laugh. and i laugh because i probably think its funny. so maybe i have a guys sense of humour about some stuff. i don't know. maybe it happend in self defense. it happens enough and you just have to laugh instead of getting offended. i mean it just wasn't worth it to make a big deal. and eventually it actually became funny and i even start making jokes of my own.
but just once i want a guy to watch his language infront of me .
to not chew infront of me, or at least not spit it on the floor.
is that really too much to ask.
i am officailly one of the local girls.