it makes you look nicer in a bad way

so last night we had big plans
going to go check out this new club in the city
supposed to be really cool, more of a classy place then any of the other clubs we've been too
so we headed into our friends place in the city
to get ready and do a little pre-drinking
upon our arrival we found that the roommates had invited a bunch of people over to watch the UFC fights

we never made it to the club

we started watching the fight and got kinda into it
the people were cool
and the boys were cute
so we decided just to stay there and make new friends
and a new friend i did make

i honestly think guys have selective hearing
as things were winding down i found myself sitting the couch with a guy i had been talking to most of the night
we were flirting and his arm was around me the majority of the time
or his hand was on my leg
the usual
as we realized that we would both be spending the night
it seemed to go without saying that we would share the couch
as all the extra beds were already spoken for
at this point i made it very clear of what my boundaries were
i believe my exact words were
"i'm not putting out"
his relpy was
"ok"

so i assumed that was that
wrong!
as soon as we cuddled up on the couch together he started putting the moves on me
so we kissed
alot
and yes i was enjoying it
enjoying the attention definitely
but the closeness was what i enjoyed most
its been awhile since i've been that close to someone of the male species
anyway as i put a stop to his wandering hands
more and more often i found the need to reiterate my previous statement
"you're not getting laid tonight"
" what? why?"
my reply being that i barely knew him and i don't hook up with guys i barely know as a rule. he tried to convince me that i did know him, but really he was getting nowhere and the whole situation was getting ridiculous
i try to make it a point in these situations to be clear on the fact that i am not the kind of person who can randomly hook up with people
it doesn't work for me
so i just don't
kissing is good
kissing is fine
i love kissing and will kiss just about anybody
but that is as far as it goes
i understand that it is just in guys nature to try and see how far he can get
but once i've said stop it would be nice if they would just accept that instead of trying to talk me into it.

like the billboards say
no means no

anywho after my threat to go sleep on the other couch by myself
things settle down
and i spent a rather nice night wrapped up in the arms of a cute guy

i like new friends