out of the woodwork

what makes people think they can just pop in and out of your life?
what gives them the right to just show up and like everything is ok?

my ex decides to text me out of nowhere
because he has deluded himself into thinking he still has a place in my life
maybe the part where i completely ignore him and avoid all contact with him was too subtle?

my absent father who i have not spoken to in 8 years
tracks me down on facebook
under a fake name
asking me to email him
which i do
and then he never responds
typical

thanks alot universe. thanks alot